IT's TOO LATE TO CRY WHEN HEAD IS OFF

INTRODUCTION

It is obvious and vividly that the society is full and indulge with regret after some dubious and amorous acts had happened. This article is title with an idiom which they are words whose their meaning cannot be understood their ordinary English expressions. When person is addressed with this phrase "it's too late to cry" this signify that person have delayed, wasted his/her economic time and extravagant it, consequently, he/she now regret it. "When head is off," literary when the head is cut-off person is already dead, but figuratively it means beyond that, it is an error, mistake and foolishness person had made.
       Therefore an idiom "it's too late, to cry when head is off," is a colosal and gingantic challenge especially to youth lifestyle in this spotful world. It pains me like a dog taking pepper, when I had, thought, see and touch about the out cry of people in the society. I made to understand that "joy cometh in the morning but trouble don't last always". I write to challenge the youth of this 21st century, a computerized and advance world, Nigeria as one of the potential advance country that we should not allow the head to cut-off before we start crying rather we should protect ourself (pro-active) against any intruders that may come to tamper with us potentials. Below are some of the challenges:-
(i) desperate belief by the masses (poor):- in the society we have two class of people according to Karl Marx these classes are "class of have (the comprador bourgeoisie) and class of have none (the masses and those in thartad clothes)." Some people believe that is only luxuriant and those glowing in CBN made (money) are men that do not cry, it's erroneous to make such expression. But what matter is how you determined, How hard you work, Even the holy bible acknowledged that no food for lazy man, have you wake-up? If you haven't so It's time I remind you.
(ii) educational challenge:- life is full with ugly young challenges. It sound so sower like a lemon to me that one is telling me about his class mate that is now in high class, if he/she saw his or her class mate driven a car they will say, "that person in the car is my class mate, what about you? What happened with you? These are the rhetorical questions people do face when they are in the challenged world and should answer themselves.
(iii) marital challenge:- marriage is a union between two opposite sex (male and female) for their life expectancy in the world. Marriage was made by God that is from the holy bible. I am not against marriage, but how do we get into it? Is there not regret in it? Research have it that out of 100% of youth marriages today 70 - 75% are regretting it and mostly those who regret it are those who prematurely married either through social accident (pregnancy), wring (christian) marriage and traditional marriage, what make them to cry is because they see inevitable burden that they cannot carry.
         Therefore, I challenge and advice my fellow youth to take this marital issue very serious and be concious and brave like a soldier in a battle front, because "we don't prepared in marriage but we prepare for marriage" it is worthy of note that when you are about to enter into marriage there is a wide door open but immediately you entered the door will be close-down.
(iv) historical challenge:- there is an axiom that posited that we learn from our past mistakes and our people (Gbagyi) said "ogmah n hoto wuko n' yelon ko bo ze wako nkobo myiho n'tna," meaning a baby snake you did not kill today will become a phyton that will swallow you tomorrow. Been you a mentally sound youth, you have to personally create awareness on things and events that are happening to others in the society.
(v) future challenge:- in everything we do we have to know that anything that has begining must surely have an end. It is apperantly that, their is not accidental fulfilment in life. Meaning life is not all about fortune, opportunity or chance but is all about how you planned it in at first place. I understood that people always regret on what they have done previously especially in their old age level. It sound so foolish, when you say "had I know". Every human being undergo three stages in life. These stages are morning, afternoon and evening, meaning childhood, adulthood and old age respectively. So, in these life stages we have to be brave and optimistic. Gbagyi adage said "Akulanbo gyi-ye a kwokwoyi bwa abi mafyi ko nu (the prolong of rocky hole water create conducive environment for an increament of tadpoles therein) . My fellow brethren is time to "strike the iron while it is hot." I wish you success as you endeavor to make a better future for yourself.
        Conclusion:- how hot, how pains and how tragedy would it be for you if you allow your head off? I assure you indeed that the regretted person will say I wouldn't have come to this world, I pray and declare that it shall not be anyone's portion in Jesus name, remember that "as you prepared your bed so you lie on it"